Emotional Profiles of Bosses – Self-Promoting Type – Asrar Qureshi’s Blog Post #905

Emotional Profiles of Bosses – Self-Promoting Type – Asrar Qureshi’s Blog Post #905

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Today, let us talk about the bosses who are almost always self-promoting themselves.

Self-promoting bosses exhibit certain behaviors that revolve around promoting themselves, enhancing their image, and advancing their career at the expense of others or the organization. Recognizing these behaviors is essential for employees to navigate their professional environment effectively. Here are some common traits and behaviors of self-promoting bosses.

• Taking Credit for Others' Achievements – Self-promoting bosses often claim credit for the successes and accomplishments of their team members without acknowledging their contributions. Many of them maintain duplicity as they give credit to team while talking to them but take all credit themselves while talking to bosses. This is hard to spot and may take a while before the team realizes it.

• Lack of Recognition for Others – They may neglect to recognize and appreciate the efforts and achievements of their team, focusing instead on highlighting their own contributions, their leadership, their ideas, and their suggestions.

• Constant Self-Promotion – Self-promoting bosses frequently talk about their achievements, skills, and successes, steering conversations toward their own accomplishments. All of these may not be entirely factual because the achievements are usually inflated. They believe in the power of propaganda, and project themselves so much that people start believing them, even partially.

• Undermining Others – They may subtly undermine colleagues or team members to make themselves look better, either by downplaying others' contributions or by highlighting their own strengths. Self-promoting bosses are usually mediocre, and they know it. Therefore, they deliberately undermine others, particularly those who may be competing with them for the next promotion.

• Seeking Attention – Self-promoters often seek attention and praise from higher-ups, making efforts to be in the spotlight during meetings, presentations, or other professional forums. Seeking attention is an infantile complex, but they do it. They also sulk a lot if they do not get the desired attention.

• Taking Advantage of Opportunities – They are quick to take advantage of opportunities that can enhance their own visibility and career progression, even if it means sidelining others. In fact, they actively sideline others to get ahead and grab the opportunity.

• Lack of Team Collaboration – Self-promoting bosses may prioritize their own goals over team collaboration, potentially hindering overall team performance and cohesion. They put their own agenda ahead of regular work, or they prefer to work in isolation without due interaction with team.

• Shifting Blame – When things go wrong, self-promoting bosses may deflect blame onto others quickly. They would do it even when it was their own idea; they would not hesitate to put the entire blame on others, may even proceed to recommend their termination for that act. Shifting blame is common in all situations while taking credit for any positive outcomes.

• Networking for Personal Gain – They engage in networking primarily for personal gain rather than developing genuine relationships or collaboration for the benefit of the team or organization.

To recognize a self-promoting boss, pay attention to these behaviors and patterns. Additionally, be cautious if you notice a consistent lack of acknowledgment for team efforts, a focus on personal achievements at the expense of collective success, and a tendency to prioritize self-promotion over collaboration.

Dealing with Self-Promoting Bosses

Dealing with a self-promoting boss may involve finding ways to assert your own contributions, maintaining a strong professional network, and documenting your achievements for future reference. It's essential to strike a balance between advocating for yourself and contributing to a positive and collaborative work environment. Following strategies may help, but these should be used cautiously and selectively. 

• Provide Constructive Feedback – If comfortable, offer constructive feedback to your boss about their behavior. Frame it in a way that emphasizes the importance of teamwork and collective success. Do it tactfully and diplomatically.

• Document and Communicate Achievements – Keep a record of your achievements and contributions. Communicate these effectively, demonstrating your value to the team and organization. Documentation will also help to put the credit in the right place.

• Build a Supportive Network – Cultivate relationships with colleagues and superiors who appreciate your work. A strong professional network can provide support and recognition outside of your immediate team. It will also counter the self-promotion efforts.

• Seek Opportunities for Collaboration – Actively look for opportunities to collaborate with your boss on projects. By demonstrating your willingness to work together, you may encourage a more collaborative approach. You may also be able to bring some positive change in them.

• Set Boundaries – Establish clear boundaries to protect your work and contributions. Politely assert yourself when necessary and ensure that your efforts are appropriately acknowledged.

• Focus on Your Own Development – Most importantly, invest in your professional development and skill enhancement. This not only improves your capabilities but also positions you as an asset to the organization.

• Maintain a Positive Attitude – Despite the challenges, maintain a positive attitude. Focus on your own growth and contributions to the team and avoid getting drawn into negative dynamics. It will only exacerbate toxic environment.

Suggestions Self – Promoting Bosses for Change

Changing self-promoting behaviors in a boss requires a combination of self-awareness on their part and a constructive approach from their subordinates. Here are some strategies for self-promoting bosses to change their behavior and ways for subordinates to handle them more effectively. Some suggestions are common with other types because erratic behaviors have same root cause. Change will not come unless it is realized that there is a problem which should be rectified.

• Develop Self-Awareness – Reflect on your behavior and its impact on the team. Acknowledge the tendency to self-promote and its potential negative effects on collaboration and morale. This again leads to learning emotional intelligence.

• Seek Feedback – Solicit honest feedback from colleagues and subordinates about your leadership style. Be open to constructive criticism and use it as an opportunity for growth. It is a very difficult task for any boss to get feedback from subordinates, but the recipe for treatment is not always pleasant.

• Celebrate Team Achievements – Actively recognize and celebrate the accomplishments of the team. Give credit where it's due and highlight the collective efforts that contribute to success. Celebrating team achievements forces to give, not take, credit where it is due.

• Encourage Open Communication – Cultivate a culture of open communication where team members feel comfortable expressing their opinions and ideas. This can help break down barriers and improve collaboration. Open communication is also a prerequisite for seeking feedback.

• Delegate and Empower – Delegate responsibilities to team members and empower them to take ownership of projects. This not only builds trust but also showcases your confidence in the team's abilities. When you self-promote yourself all the time, your team become less confident.

• Focus on Professional Development – Invest time and resources in your team's professional development. Show genuine interest in their growth and demonstrate that you value their contributions beyond your own.

It's important to note that changing behavior takes time and commitment. Both self-promoting bosses and their subordinates should approach this process with patience, empathy, and a genuine desire to evolve a positive and collaborative work environment.

Concluded.